Decisions, Sacrifices and Compromises

Stay away from emotional attachment with people, easy to say but you don't know when it happens and when you want to cut away that string. Cutting that string is the toughest decision she had to make. Staying away from him was as difficult for her as she could ever imagine. But she had to marry someone else, someone she's always wanted to be with from a long time, the date was fixed, families agreed after a lot of argument. She has to be with him, there is no backing out now.


Life is all about decisions, sacrifices and compromises all along, the more number of days you spend on this earth the more you understand about sacrifices and compromises you make along your path. You have to let go of people, you think you like, if they are meant to be in your life they will be in your life but that doesn't mean you force things to happen and break away an existing relation. I am not pointing fingers at her or saying what she's doing is wrong but the sooner she realizes the commitment she's already made, the happier she will be. All that I care about is she is happy with whoever she is.


Decisions were taken, Sacrifices need to be made, Compromises are inevitable.


Its time to cut the String.


Disclaimer : This post is NOT about me. My marriage is not fixed nor am I seeing anyone as of today (09/12/2016). I am Single and Happy AF.

We'll be alright.

We are scared.
We pretend like we don't care.
But may be we actually do.


May be a little less about ourselves
and a little more about what others do.




When we were small,
we didn't know what it felt like to be independent;


Now that we are all grown up,
we don't like it anymore.




We were never bothered about bills to pay,
responsibilities to take care of,
or earn to feed a family;


Now that you are there,
you understand what debts are,
you understand what it means to take impulsive decisions,
you know what its like, to eat food made by your mother.


Not everyone is that lucky.




You have made happy memories,
had amazing relations,
met new people,
but you also had bad incidents,
people that walked out on you,
enemies you made on your way here.


Stick to what brings you happiness;
coz life is not all daffodils and daisies.




Just when things go wrong; breath in, relax.
And remind yourself "everything will be alright".

Genuineity

I guess there's no such thing as being genuine, after all. You like to remember the faults others do but never point out the wrong you do. Such is the human feeling. I love being what I am, I love what I was and I will continue loving myself. I also accept the flaws in me. I, at least admit my flaws. We all know no one is perfect. But when someone points fingers at you for your flaws and don't admit their flaws. What can you possibly do ? Do you cry for people pointing out fingers ? Or do you cry, coz they do not admit that they have made mistakes equally as bad as you ? Or would you just stay calm and let people point fingers and not give a shit coz that's what people who want to cover up their asses do ?


Either way; just learn to be genuine.
Be truthful, at least to yourself.