Are you Judgy ?

I am sure you are. Cos that's how we as humans are built to think. You meet someone, you decide what they are; based on their looks, their attitude. the way they speak. This is the initial level of judging people, which is most common. I agree that even I probably fall in this category of judgy people. Then comes the next category of people who take judging a person, a level further; by assuming what that person is based on "WHAT" they talk or "HOW" they behave or "WHOM" they hang out with. Specially when that person is a girl. When a girl talks a lot, or if she has more guy friends or ocassionally drinks and smokes or sleeps around with guys, the whole world suddenly begins to be bothered about her. Its how they wish to live. If you are their friend and care about them just let them know. I am sure they will understand, at least not initially. Irony, even someone who rants about other being judgy is actually being judgy about them just because they think that person is judgy. Circle of Life. May be ?


Just random thoughts. Cheers. Have a nice day :)

Here I am

This is me.

This is how I am.

I am flawed.

I don't have the perfect of anything.

I am perfect at being imperfect. 

Life goes on...

I'm at a point of my life where I've become immune to everything. I am generally a very emotional person. I get too attached easily on contrast I can stay away from people if I have to, very easily. But right now, this phase that I'm in, I feel I've become immune to any kind of problem or situation. Life is tough, keeps getting tougher or may be we feel it get tougher coz we tend to make it complicated. There have been people who helped me get through this phase, helped me get over my bad times, helped me overcome situations I felt were impossible to cross, help me get over heart breaks I didn't wanna hold on to. All these things actually helped me understand life doesn't get easier, you get stronger and more resistant. And that is why life goes on...