WDYLTT - 2

So Couple years ago, I wrote a Prologue to something I will be continuing in this post..

You never stop learning, regardless of how difficult your life gets.

What did I learn till today ?

• People are selfish, don't expect them to listen to you and understand you every single time.
• DO NOT be alone and isolated; always make new friends/acquaintances, life gets a little easier this way.
• Relationships are not the end of everything.
• You will definitely have to change yourself at least a little to accommodate someone in your life, no matter how perfect your spouse is.
• Happiness is everywhere, just be open and willing to accept it and try to make it last longer, specially when you feel that your life is going nowhere.
• Work hard and enjoy it while you're at it.
• Work out, make some time in your daily life and stick to a healthy lifestyle ( I Wish I started earlier)
• Don't try to impress people to make them like you, people will judge you and find faults in you no matter what.
• Try to be the best version of yourself or rather be how you want others to treat you.
• Don't fall in love or get too attached to any one; to the point where that person leaving your life makes you sad and depressed.
• Love what you do, if you don't love it then find something else.
• DONT RANT about something you do not like. You clearly have a choice to leave it and start something new.
• Nothing in this world is impossible, no matter how hard it looks, how discouraging people can be, you have to believe in yourself that it is achievable and if you push yourself to WORK HARD and stay dedicated.
• BE HAPPY WITH THE CHOICES YOU MAKE/MADE. ALWAYS !
• Never Regret.

Too much gyan (wisdom) for one post ? :P

Regrets

February 27th 2017

Shares a random thought with a friend



My Perspective
Eventually everything falls into place.
Every lost moment of joy comes back,
Every tear belongs to happiness
Every heartbeat to the goal



His Perspective
Everything does not fall into place eventually.
You have to work to make things right.
Some moment of joy never come back; No matter what.
You just have to make peace with it.
Every tear drop doesn't belong to happiness.
When we look back, we all have things we regret. A lot.

Although his perspective seemed rather realistic. I could not accept it. Impractical, as it may sound, but I do not have regrets. I am that person who does not fear; the choices I've taken, decisions I've made or actions I did. Any choice I took at that time was because it felt right at that very moment. When  you realize this, about any action you take in life, the happier your life gets. Its funny how this got stuck to me; is actually from the movie Jab we met where Kareena is trying to run away from her house and explains Shahid how she loves her life and why she's not scared about what she's doing with her life. Her life, her decisions, her choices, that's the reason she is where she is right now.


P.S - Wanted to link that scene here but I couldn't find it on YouTube. May be you just have to watch the movie to the scene right before the interval and let me know your thoughts :P

Patience

Be different, they say; but different scares away people.

Be happy, they say; but happiness doesn't last a long time.

You be you, I say, coz you have only yourself for your lifetime.

People come into your life, influence you, alter your life, for good or bad.

But you have only yourself from your very first memory as a child;

To the last memory before you die.

No one can ever love you more than *you should be loving* yourself !

Be patient I say, when everything feels wrong and off-course,

There will be a day, when you realize this is what you've been waiting for.

Till then enjoy the cheap thrills;

Do things you've never done before,

Meet new people,

Meet your favorite artist,

Spend time for yourself,

Do things that don't need explanation,

Apart from the fact that it makes you happy!

But remember to always be patient.

For better or worse, life goes on, no matter what !

Why not just be joyful about what makes you happy and

Wish you have the courage to face every obstacle through your life.

After all you only have yourself, for your Lifetime.